Let's go there, because this is where I think alot of us can get caught up.
When the chemistry is good–and I mean really good–it can make you over look things you probably wouldn't tolerate otherwise.
I've learned over time that sometimes we give chemistry way too much credit. We start believing that because the physical connection is strong, everything else between us must be worth fighting for too.
and that's not always true.
You can be extremely attracted to someone and still not be emotionally compatible with the. You can crave their touch and still hate the way they communicate. You can have moments together that feel almost perfect, then turn around an wonder why you feel so disconnected from them everywhere else.
That's why, for me, chemistry isn't enough anymore.
Because eventually you have to talk.
Eventually you have to understand each other.
Eventually you have to deal with real life outside of those moments when everything feels good.
And this is something experience has definitely taught me: just because two bodies know exactly what to do with each other doesn't mean two people know what to do with each other.
Thats a BIG difference.
The chemistry might keep you coming back. But when the heat settles, what do the two of you actually have?
So here's the real question...
"Have you ever confused good sex with a good connection?"
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